Random Thoughts

I am feeling a little like Carrie Bradshaw today, but I have a few things on my mind. Like after you have been with someone for awhile, does the spark go away? Is this really the way it is supposed to be? Do you become so relaxed in your relationship that you quit trying to woo your spouse? Remember when you first met and when he would touch, even your arm, there was a spark? Electricity? Why does that go away? Do you just settle and be content that you at least have a loving spouse? I guess what I am wondering is, where does the WOW go? Why do men think that once they have you, there is no need to romance you anymore? Am I wrong on this? Is my relationship abnormal? Sure I may be mom to a basketball team of boys, but dammit I want a little passion, a little romance now and than. Am I asking too much?